OOOHH the pain!

[ankhst]

I had my mole removed from my shoulder today. now the anasthetic is wearing off and it hurts like hell. I spose it's a good enough distraction.

I'm so angry and hurt and shitty with every-F**king-one now. So many people new that Andrew was a cheat but no-one thought to tell me. No-one considered that maybe my health could be at risk because he couldn't keep it in his pants.

***NEWS FLASH***
condoms are not 100% effective at preventing disease. Not only are some of the nastier STIs transferable even with a condom but condoms can have minute holes that let germs through, even if they don't break.

And besides, shouldn't I have the choice to stay or go if my man is playing up? It's not YOUR decision "friends."

And another thing: Just because you don't see what a person sees in their partner it doesn't give you the right to tell them that they should break up with him/her. Nor should you put pressure on them to leave them behind when going out...if you really care about a person, and if they're your friend then I'd say you should, then you have to accept all that they come with...History, friends, family and even significant others.

And to all those two faced arseholes who pretend to like me then bitch about me, or hate me in real life - DIE A HORRIBLE DEATH!!!! you don't deserve to live

Comments

[lucidspin.livejournal.com]

Umm, in case I didn't express what I meant clearly (which happens lots), I think you should do what will make you happy.
If that means sorting it out with Andrew, then good for you. If that means ending it, then also good for you. It's your decision, and no one can tell you what to do, and they shouldn't do either. I aren't going to pretend to know anything about your situation and try to tell you what to do, that would be very arrogant and stupid.
I'm sorry if I upset you by not being clear.

[ankhst.livejournal.com]

The rant wasn't at you, unless you are one of those friends who have been saying things like 'he/she isn't good enough for you, you should break up'

The point being, basically, that no-one can see what any one else sees in their chosen partner and that if they have chosen that person, even for just the moment, there must be something that they see. It may be as simple as 'they were there' or 'they offered' but they still made a choice that needs to be respected.

[lucidspin.livejournal.com]

I'm glad it wasn't me who upset you.
I haven't been saying nasty things about either of you, no.

You are right, no one see someone else through their partner's eyes, so have NO IDEA what they like about them. One of the men (I use the term loosely) on my AB run is about 30ish, and has no teeth. He swears all the time, is nasty to animals, but he has a partner who (presumably) cares a lot about him.

When I get back from hellburton in about 11 days, would you like a visit and some seaweed custard? The packet says it is creamy.

seaweed custard

[ankhst.livejournal.com]

i might pass on the custard, on account of my long list of allergies, but visitors are always welcome.

Re: seaweed custard

[lucidspin.livejournal.com]

Oh. No seaweed custard.
Some huge yellow balloons then perhaps?
And ribbon!

I get back in less than a couple of weeks, so I'll come to visit you then :Q)

[rhiannamator.livejournal.com]

If you would like to come over and eat chocolate, watch girly vids and chew my ear off, then please do so. I'm not going to take sides, but if you want someone to talk to then txt me 021 2642 552. I've ranted to you often enough :).